Matt and Jodey Conway moved into the neighborhood a few years ago but they’ve already started to make an impact on the families who live here and had made quite an impression on John. He was a fan! He loved Matt’s laid-back nature and just hanging out and having a beer. Here is what Matt had to say about John.
Just not enough time! When we moved into this neighborhood I told Jodey, “I guarantee McGeary and I end up being great friends and hang out all the time.” We were on our way and I will miss him terribly.
Quick story...at the Oktoberfest party I ran out of sweet vermouth and John said he had some, so we took (stole) Steven’s golf cart to get it laughing the whole way. We got to the basement and he pulled out a bottle of dry vermouth. I said we can’t use that in manhattans. He said everyone was already tipsy they will never know! I agreed, we had a shot of tequila, and left with the dry vermouth. I kept the bottle as a memento. I know now I will never throw it away.
His death has been difficult to deal with for me. I think about it every single time I drive by. Not sure I will ever not think about it. His face, his smile, his kindness and warmth. Every time I go to Krys’ and Tim’s I take two handfuls of peanut M&Ms...one for me and one for John. Krys always said John and I were the only reason she put them out.
I think about you, Maddie, and the boys all of the time and how hard this must be, which makes me so sad. I think about the fact that he called me just a couple weeks before to give me extra firewood he had and we had a beer and some laughs in the garage...I only wish I knew he was struggling.
Like many I presume, John’s death has made me extremely aware of mental health and stability...including my own. More than anything it has made me realize men need to talk more, ask each other how they are doing, and open up with the truth if they need help. It’s not a sign of weakness.
I am blown away that you are using this horrible loss to help others. We will continue to be here for you and the kids if you ever need anything. And to all those who are struggling...talk to someone...get help. If you are my friend call me any time you want.
If you are depressed or anxious and are having thoughts of suicide, please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
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